Groovy and I had a conversation about relationships.
Groovy reckons that it wouldn't be a bad idea if I made a list of the type of guy I wish to find.
He then suggests that the list should be edited,
and categorised into "My Needs" and "My Wants".
Well... here's the unedited list.
Don't hold anything against me alrite?
This is just the rough draft,
and I chose to include everything I currently feel.
I promise that after editing,
There'll be WAYYY less.
*fingers crossed*
THE LIST
1. Loves music.
2. Love Manchester United.
3. Plays the guitar OR piano.
4. Sings.
5. Loves dancing with me. (specifically, dirty dancing)
6. Taller than me. (Im 160cm - at least 5 cm taller would be great)
7. Able to carry me when I'm sick, drunk, or lazy. (VERY roughly, I'm over 50kgs)
8. Isn't as thin as bones.
9. Loves socialising.
10. A leader in his pack.
11. Strong and opinionated.
12. Smart and sophisticated.
13. Able to communicate effectively with me in ENGLISH.
14. Doesn't mind hanging with my friends.
15. Makes an effort to make my friends and family like him.
16. Pleasant, even if he has to fake it.
17. Able to lead me when I need guidance.
18. Lets me be independent when I want to be.
19. Trust me in things that I do.
20. Listens when I talk.
21. Worthy of my trust in return.
22. Someone I can feel proud of.
23. Cares about his personal appearance (his hair, dressing, and etc).
24. Has manners.
25. Career oriented.
26. Loves his and my family, and looks forward to have one of his own.
27. Reliable.
28. Opens himself to me.
29. Accepting of my past relationships and ways.
30. Does not hold my past against me.
31. Cares about me without having to show obvious jealousy.
32. Mature in handling sticky situations.
33. Drinks but do not fancy getting drunk.
34. Lets me go out with my own friends.
35. Takes genuine interest in my life and undertakings.
36. Supportive of my decisions.
37. Wouldn't mind watching romantic chick flicks with me.
38. Loves taking me around to explore new things.
39. An awesome lover.
40. Respects my need for personal space.
41. Has his own gang of friends.
42. Knows how to deal with me when I'm mad, frustrated, annoyed or simply not in the mood.
43. Pushes me to do things that he knows I wanna do.
44. Write me songs.
45. Love taking road trips with me.
46. Isn't someone who is afraid to get some dirt on his hands.
47. Has soft after-washed hair.
48. Isn't a possessive maniac.
49. Confident but not arrogant or a constant smart ass.
50. Horny.
51. Cleans up after himself.
52. Doesn't pee out of the bowl.
53. Does not uses sarcasm to offend people.
54. Funny, but not stupid.
55. Able to update me on current affairs and latest news.
56. Has a good body, and does work to keep himself in good shape.
57. Doesn't mind my extra flesh.
58. Compliments and motivates me.
59. Preferably, he should not know too much of my past.
(not that it's THAT bad)
60. Loves taking my photo, and doesn't mind me taking his'.
61. Does small things to make me smile and warm my heart.
62. Doesn't try to hard to be perfect.
63. Doesn't expect me to think he's perfect.
64. Able to be grateful to have me, instead of thinking he's too good.
65. Likes to cuddle and sleep in when we can.
66. Wear boxers or boer briefs.
67. Doesn't smoke.
68. Be a guy who I can trust to be the father of my child.
69. Tries to be a good dad and husband.
70. Respectful to his friends, my friends and people in general.
71. Appears (at suitable situations) as a gentleman.
72. Dedicates me songs because of their lyrics.
73. Doesn't have a job that requires him to work 7 days a week, day to night.
74. Allows me to have close male friends.
75. Does housework because he knows he should, not by force.
76. Cooks.
77. Believes in gender equality, but still does more because he knows he's a man.
78. Allows me to live in lala-land from time to time.
79. Pampers me when I need pampering.
80. Lets me shop, without saying too much to irritate me.
81. Buys me fruits, because I don't eat vege.
82. Drives, but does not necessarily need to own a car. At least not now.
83. Is as serious in his studies as I am.
84. Tries to keep a tidy room, car or house.
85. Has experience in many things.
86. Able to be my teacher and friend, both at the same time.
87. Does not act like he knows everything about me.
88. Talks to me when something is bothering him.
89. People likes him.
90. Patient.
91. Has his own religion and beliefs.
92. Wants 2 kids, and allows me to name them.
93. Let me be boss sometimes.
94. Takes me out to hang with his friends.
95. Doesn't mind public display of affection (PDA).
96. Kisses me everytime we meet or part.
97. Loves holding my hands.
98. Doesn't overthink things and turn into a girl!
99. Plays pool, and looks hot doing it.
100. Sees me for my good traits, and be understanding with my bad.
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