December 12, 2007

.any better?.

I found Mahfuz.
He's in Shah Alam; Working.
I miss him so much.
Not surprisingly,
We had heaps to talk about.

Thats the only good thing about life lately.
The rest can bite the dust.

I hate this holiday.
I absolutely HATE this holiday.
And I hate it even more knowing that going back to Aus probably wouldn't be much better either.
F****** *** ** * *****!!!!


December 8, 2007

.kk updates and downdates.

SoOo... my trip home has taken a down turn.
The last week,
I spent accompanying my dear uncle Kah Chin at his bedside.
3 days ago,
He left us.
I can only wish he rest in peace,
and may only the wonderful things be with him in his new life.

So the whole week has been different.
But I'm glad to be able to be there for my family.

Just a couple of hours ago though,
Jimmy and I were texting.
I realize I do miss him.
But again,
Something he said just disappointed me.

Rite now,
like right this second...
I feel kinda numb.
I'm getting the "I don't give a damn" feeling.
I don't give a damn about Jimmy that is.
Or more like,
"Jimmy and I".
A huge part of me wish I can go back (to Aus),
Start life without him as my boyfriend,
and still be happy.

Whilst another part of me is afraid that I would wake up tomorrow,
feeling nothing but "I miss him" bugs.
(and I'd be back in the 'he's really not that bad' phase)
I hate that.

Especially now.
Right now,
When I think of him,
All I can think of are the reasons (strong reasons) why Jimmy doesn't deserve to be my boyfriend anymore.
I just need to find a way to make sure this feeling sticks.
Because honestly,
I don't see any changes in him.

And no changes (after the reason why we broke up) means...
If we get back together,
I'd still be given the exact same treatment,
I'd still have to put up with his same old antics, (those I dislike)
and I'd still continue feeling "I can soooo be treated better by someone else"...

Wish me luck.

Btw... I hope my KK holiday gets better.
I might be able to meet Wayne.
Remember Wayne?
*heart melts*
He might be visiting me in KK for New Year.
If not, he told me his work is transferring him to Melbourne.
Wayne back in Aus!
That means it'd be easier for us to meet again!
And according to our last convo, (a week ago)
He thinks me and him might still have a shot. ^^

Oh... and I've met Shafeeq.
Our day out together was great.
We took a walk down memory lane,
and even relived a few past memories. *ehem*
although what you're thinking COULD be right. HAHA!
(die with the suspense u!! die!!)

aaaaNd I'm due to meet Kelvin Chee soon.
He booked me for Xmas.
He mentioned something about a mistletoe?
*blur* - Yea rite I'm blur! HAHA!
Sorry, I meant...
"Mistletoe?? Whats daaaaat?!"

Check in with ya laterz bloggers!
*wink wink*

November 23, 2007

.still lurvin kk!.

3rd day back...
Since today (kinda) just started,
I'll recap on yesterday...

Day Two

x15. Met up with Fendy and Aeron.
x16. Ate roti canai (instead of soto) - ate 2 telur, 1 kosong.
x17. Drank Leong Foon susu.
x18. Spoke to Shafeeq on the phone.
x19. Played pool with the boys.
x20. Bought lots of 10cents and 20 cents keropok at the shops opposite All Saints. *no more mimi!*
x21. Ate Mangoes!!
x22. Drank Cendol at SGCC!
x23. Went to SGCC's gym.
x24. Picked Wynna from school.
x25. Ran out of credit from talking to Jimmy.
x26. Electricity got cut off at 11pm.
x27. Showered cold water.
x28. Went to bed with wet hair.


Day Three

x29. Had Tuaran Mee at Kingfisher.
x30. Currently at mum's office next to One Borneo.

... to be continued.

I have to say,
I feel so pampared.
My parents are soOoo sweeet...
And they're being so patient with me.
(especially when I take so long to get ready in the morning!)
In a way,
it feels kinda weird...
Like I'm some kinda guest in the house,
but at the same time...
there's moments where I just sit back and think,
"Damn... This is how it feels like to be really taken care of."

- mum woke me up this morning with a freshly made fruit juice.
- dad left me strepsils on the table cuz he knew i had a bad throat.
- dad quickly got me candles when the lights went out, so i can shower.
- mum made me honey lemon and boiled leong cha cuz she knew i needed it.
- everytime we go out for meals, i'm the one calling the shots.
"what do u wanna eat?" - aww...
- mum had to search the entire house to find a plug converter for my handphone charger.
- mum reminding me to recharge my phone and offering to drive me out to the shops.
- dad making sure i have money with me.
- mum making plans to get facials and massages this weekend.
- etc etc.

I'm gonna miss this!

November 22, 2007

.back home.

Been back for 2 days.
Arrived on the 20th night,
and here's what I've done so far...

x1. bought 2 pair of shoes at wisma merdeka.
x2. bought 3 dressed.
x3. bought 1 shorts + 1 jeans.
x4. ate lempeng. (yums)
x5. had bah kut teh for dinner. (DOUBLE yums!)
x6. had wanton kon lau mee at Chuan Hing.
x7. visited Warisan Square. (thats the name rite?)
x8. spoke to Fendy and made plans for breakky tomorrow. (Soto!!!)
x9. DYED MY HAIR back to a darker colour. (so boring nowww)
x10. bought buns from Southern Bakery!!
x11. spoke to Kelvin Chee about making plans for Sunday.
x12. texted Shafeeq and Lena.
x13. spoke to Jimmy.
x14. got a new number: 014 3797 687 (digi)

So sleepy now.
But happy.
Yay. :)

November 20, 2007

.i like him just the way he is.

A week ago,
I honestly thought Jimmy could be my world.

But during the last weekend,
something happened...
Too complicated to tell.

But from that experience,
Jimmy and I realised something.
Our personalities only work in the good times.
Ie: We share the same type of humour,
we enjoy the same things,
we get each other when it comes to even the silliest things.

But where we don't work is when times get tough.
At one point,
I accused him of being a fair weathered boyfriend,
but really...
We're both simply the type who wants to solve the problem our ways,
And we realised that to get our way,
we have to always battle it out...
Neither would want to back down...
and usually, it'd end with one party being overborned.
And that party would not be happy.

We spent 2 days talking about it...
Trying and trying to resolve our difference,
but it didnt work.
The last argument,
I was the one overborned.
And this time,
I stepped up to my unhappiness,
and realised...
If this is gonna continue,
It'd be hard to reach the end with this guy.

And I know that trying to change him isn't the solution.
Because it's his personality.
Not his weird quirks or bad habits...
It's not his personal views or his belief...
It's HIM.
It's unchangable.
I can force him to be more agreeable with me,
but what good would that do?

If he tried to make me become more agreeable to him,
and just be the one listening and learning and following...
I can't.
Everyone who knows me would know that is impossible.
Its not whether he's worthy of me, changing for him.
Its the fact that this is NOT CAPABLE of being changed.

I can't do it,
why should I think he can?

And to be honest,
This is the Jimmy that I fell for in the first place.
The arrogant, outspoken, questing-everything, opinionated guy...
And I honestly do not want him any other way.
The only sad bit about that is,
What I like so much about him,
is the same thing that is tearing us apart.

19th November 2007...
Jimmy and I broke up.

I'm fine.
We're fine.
... I'll be fine.
Its just so upsetting cuz before this,
we were just talking about calling off the whole "break" thing.

*Our last pic as a couple*

November 16, 2007

.so exams are over; what now?.

Exams are over.
I should be going crazy yea?
After all,
Exams are over...
My *possibly* LAST EXAMS are over!!

*bloody touch wood, mind you*
(and if I dont grad, dont use the above quote to rub salt in my wound, thanks)

But yea...
Why don't I feel anything?
Yea, I have parties to attend and plans all made up.
But... It doesnt feel any different.

Maybe tonite's Dinner + Party would change that.
We'll see.

But anyway,
EXAMS ARE DONE!! WeeeHeeee!!
*nah... still dont feel anything*

(good luck D!! keep striving!!)

ps: I'll be back in KK in less than 5 days.
Kelvin Chee has already called to make plans.
He's so sweeet...
And Fendi too. YAY!!
I'll miss Brisbane and Jimmy though...
But hey,
I'm home.
I might not even use the words "Brisbane" or "Jimmy" for the next 6 weeks.
Who knows huh?
I'll keep u posted.

November 11, 2007

.expires in 9 days.

"So 6 weeks apart from each other... feels like a long time huh?"

"Yea... what do you think would happen between us?"

"I don't know. You think one of us, if not both of us, would stray?"

"Can't be sure."


"Yea... Breaking up seems like the better way,
instead of having to deal with the whole 'cheating' thing..."

"Yea... so... we're breaking up?"




So I guess...
9 days from now,
I'm officially 100% single and available again.

And also,
We talked about getting back together when I come back,
but on second thought I realised...
Whats the point?

We've been together for 6 months,
and if thats not enough to make us want to at least TRY to preserve what we had (especially when we say how great we are together) while I go away for 6 weeks...
Then... whats the point right?

I know we're just trying to be realistic,
and to prepare for the worst,
and to go with the option with the least complications (for now and the future)...
But... if we can just say,
"Yea, lets break up" because we'll be apart for 6 weeks,
(which mind you, to some people is NOTHING)
How much of a relationship is this really in the first place?

*Opinions needed*

And in case you havent notice,
The dialogue above isn't bad writing...
I intentionally did not want to specify who said what.
Its kinda a way to also say we decided on this together.

Oh well...
Its been decided.
Hear Hear to yet another one of Sherlene's break up!

November 10, 2007


I thought this was beautiful...
I enjoyed this test.

November 6, 2007

.jumpin' on sheena's bandwagon; i <3 australia - haHa.

I know I know I shud be studying...
But I just had a sudden urge to write something.

My last few weeks were very eventful.
It felt like I've done so much, it shud've been months.
But looking back,
I realised it's only been a few weeks.
I'd list everything I did, with photos and etc,

But I was gonna make this a quick post.
So... maybe next time.

It seems like now that Uni life is almost over,
(or at least I'm hoping it would be after these exams)
I'm going out,
and enjoying life a little more.

Every weekend feels packed with activities that I can barely find time to accommodate.

And it feels great.
Exhausting, but so great.

And now,
studying and praying exams would go by quicker,
I realised after my exams,
I'd be leaving this place in 6 days.

Dont get me wrong,
I wanna go home so badly...
But at the same time,
It feels as if things here are picking up,
and becoming very fun and... just great.
And I'm leaving. :(

I knowww... only for a short 6-7 weeks.
I'm sure I'd be asking for more time in KK when its time for me to come back here,
but still...

I guess I've had a great year.
This year for me was awesome in Australia.
Definitely one of best.

Here's one of the many silly pics of Jimmy and I at his dad's birthday lunch.

His parents love snapping photos as much as I do.
That was a fun day too.
We had lunch, and ended up leaving only way after 10pm.
His parents made me stay to watch a movie...
and I was flooded with baby photos of Jimmy and etc.
His parents are cool...
I had fun.
Yea, I did.

October 23, 2007

.who cares about strings? have a fling!.

The best chocolate bar I've tasted.
Why did they call it fling?
Take a bite and you'll see why.
This chocolate bar definitely lives up to its name.
So sexy,
So naughty,
So light.
I love the catch phrases that they use to advertise this choc too.
So far, I know of three.
1. "Forever is overrated"
2. "Chocolate with no strings attached"
3. "Why have a full on chocolate affair when you can have a fling"
Thats my kinda taste in every sense.

October 19, 2007

.wow... i reli am a winner!.

Check this out.

I'm Pixi Foto's Top 10 Promoters in Australia!

And I repeat,

Checkout the list of Pixi Foto studios around Aus.
There isn't 5 or 10,
There are heaps!!
And each studio has about 5-6 promoters each!!
I just realised.


My Manager told me something rather flattering today.
She says that every time she calls the numbers I bring back to the studio,
she gets guys who asks her for my number on a weekly basis.
The bad side about that is,
The customers I thought I got weren't interested in our product.

But oOh well!

The funniest bit about that is when Kellie (my manager) says to me -
"You get so many guys asking me for your number!
I don't understand why you can't get a better boyfriend!"

Actually thats not the funniest thing.
The funniest was when she said -
"Here, I photocopied the top 10 list for you so you can show your dad.
(colour photocopy, as u can see)
Tell him you don't wanna be a lawyer,
and wanna be a promoter for Pixi forever." - LOL
I got something funnier!!!
Kellie actually framed the top 10 list!
She also highlighted my name,
And included my photo in it!
A pic with me with a pink boa around my neck!!
I hope she doesn't hang it up on the wall.
I look ohmygod-ly in the pic!
(ohmygod-ly in a bad way)

October 17, 2007

.im a winner.

Guess what I found on Yahoo when I searched "Sherlene Lee"...
(Yea, I like to search my name once in a while and see what pops out)

Apparently "I" (or someone with the identical name) had won tickets to watch Ratatouille!!

By the way,
Jimmy left for Tazmania this morning,
And things havent been going well.
Half way tru his 3 hour long drive to a mine site (for work),
His radiator blew up...
A wild animal ran out the road,
and "WhaaM!"... its goNe.

.i love my editings.

But you don't have to. :)

By the way,
Its 2am and I have work tomorrow...
I had plans to do my creative writing critique tonite,
but what did I end up doing since 11pm?

I've been watching Season 4 of OC..

*Sheeeeeeenaaaaaaa........ Helpppppppppp!*

October 12, 2007


So I'm doing a "creative writing" unit this semester ritee...
And basically,
I need to write up 1700 words short stories.

My previous story was about a guy meeting a girl,
the girl got excited at the prospect of finding love,
but at the end,
she found out she was on the wrong page,
and the guy shot her down.
The story ended with her going out,
naive-ly finding other guys to fall for,
and not learning her lesson..

This time,
I wrote a story about a guy and girl who's been in a rship for 6 months.
The girl is beginning to feel uneasy in the rship,
which was later revealed that it was becuz of a bad past rship.
The past has been holding her back.
Then her friend points out her problems and she realises how she's been wreaking all her rships after being by a guy in the past.
The story can end two ways.

1) They're in bed, everything is blissful,
she realises she's ready to love again.

2) They're in bed, everything is blissful,
until she accidentally called the current guy by the wrong name.
(her holding-her-back ex's name, obviously)

Which is a better ending?

I want soOo much to write a happy love story.
But then people would say its too predictable.
But isn't the "she didn't get the guy at the end" ending getting predictable too?
Cuz everyone thinks if she gets the guy,
its predictable.
So everyone makes it a point to make sure she doesnt.
So by that,
wouldn't the truth be... if she doesn't get the guy,
it's be predictable??

Am I making sense?
Maybe its a good thing I'm doing Law.

October 10, 2007

.advice of the week.

Good friends always come with brilliant advice.

In relation to one of my questions,
"Is it wrong (ie: cheating) to accept a date with someone who's interested in you?"
And I got this genius response -

۞ D! ۞♪♫ says:
my only advice is if u put yourself in a room with a gun with someone you hate, ur already guilty of murder.

^^ whoa.
Straight to the bone.

October 9, 2007

.gave in to my laziness.

Exams are in less than a month...
My final exams as an undergrad. (hopefully)
Its seriously all jitter bugs baybieeee...
*whoaa* (that was just a weird sounding sigh)

So how has things been lately?
I dont really know how to put it.

I think the best way to describe life at the moment is...
Sherlene Lee is back to being Sherlene Lee.
Or more like,
She's back to being the Sherlene Lee everyone has stereotyped her to be.
Uh huH... that's right.

And well,
At the moment,
It works for me.

I'm having fun peeps. Heaps.

October 3, 2007

.could be fiction.

He held her tightly in bed that night, cradling her head on his chest. His fingers gently ran down her hair. The scent of her shampoo filled the air. His arms tucked her body closely to his as she found that special spot that fit her head comfortably, just below his shoulder. Their feet, messily intertwined under the covers, reluctant to move an inch. Their breathing were melodious, matching the gentle beats of their hearts. She smiled, silently thanking the star, thinking how close they were to losing all this a few days earlier.

A bright light suddenly lit up the room, stealing both their attentions away from each other. She felt him swallow hard, and her heart sunk. It was a text message on his mobile, and she knew who it was. It was 1.30 in the morning... She couldn't be wrong, and his reaction, although very subtle, had confirmed her thoughts.

...Cont. here:

September 30, 2007

.the talk.

We talked.
I voiced out.
He listened.
He also explain some things,
where I was misinformed.

Somehow I trust him.

Breaking up has always been my way to solve things.
But he didnt let that happen tonite.
He very calmly walked us through this.
I told him everything I felt...

Things could be better from now.
In fact,
I somehow find myself liking him more.
Maybe its becuz Im weak,
and becuz I never was ready to let him go.
Im glad we didn't break up tonite.

I just hope this talk really meant something.
According to Jimmy,
This wasn't a step forward in our relationship,
Its a Leap.

We'll see if that meant anything.

September 28, 2007

.3 major assessments coming up.

As mentioned in the title of this post,
I have 3 major assessments lined up.
2 on Monday,
1 on Friday.

I've only done/prepared for one of them so far.
This is definitely not the time for relationship issues.
But sadly,
Its consuming me.
He has turned me into a pathetic loser.

Its been 2 days since we last spoke,
Which has happened in the past (and only meant we were busy)...
But very rarely have we not spoken for 2 days,
after having a bad conversation last.

I go to bed thinking what to say to him if he calls,
and I wake up, springing to my mobile quicker than my eyes can open,
just to see if I had missed his call or if he had left me an sms.
I'm going crazy here.
But I do not want to call him first.

I know I'm being a girl.
But if he hasn't noticed,
I am a girl.
And no way am I gonna back down.
Now Im just worried that he'd call me and act like nothings wrong.
What do I do then?

Bring up my issues and start a "talk"?
Wave everything and go with HIS flow and act like I've been fine?


I'm going to Reiji tonite,
and I'm gonna forget about him.

September 27, 2007

.me & my wake up call.

I've spoken to quite a number of people about my current predicament.
And they've all directed me to the same path...
The path (of life) where I shud continue walking - alone.

He still has a hold on my poor heart.
Which is expected...
Otherwise I wouldn't be feeling this confused.

Truth be told,
I wasn't happy enough.
I knew that!
Yea, we have tons of fun when we're together.
But that shouldn't excuse him for the times when he made me feel insignificant, rite?

You know what my problem is?
I'm suffering from a disease.
A disease very similar to the "battered woman syndrom"...
(emotional wise)

Over and over,
I've been disrespected and humiliated,
Emotionally toyed with...
(one moment I feel like I'm all he wants,
the next I'm back feeling like I'm not good enough)
Placed through series of doubts and (justifiable) insecurities,
Made to feel like a temporary parking space before a better one turns up,
Mislead with hopes and empty words...
Why havent I voiced out about all this?!

thats cuz the above always gets striked out by...
1) him, showering me with praise and loving words.
2) him, telling me, I'm what he wants in a long term companion.
3) him, telling me, he's officially telling his friends that I'm his gal.
4) him, spending all his weekends with me.
5) him, telling me he likes me soOoo much...

Friends make the choice seem so obvious.
But deep down,
I can't help feeling that maybe they dont know enough to pass judgement.
Who'd know the relationship more than the 2 persons actually IN the rship rite?

Then another word pops up...


September 25, 2007

.Its really not the 16 year olds that Im attacking.

16 year olds who thinks they're old enuff to sleep with Men over 25,
who ISN'T their boyfriend,
shud shut their friggin legs and feel ashamed of themselves.

25 above men who thinks sleeping with 16 year olds is acceptable,
using excuses such as "she seems way beyond her years" is a friggin loser!
You wanna screw around?
Screw someone your own age, you paedophile!!

And this isn't discriminating against their age gap.
A 20 year old can by all means sleep with a 30 year old,
cuz both parties at that age SHOULD be able to rightfully judge the situation,
and honestly consider the weight of their actions on the same wave length.

But 16 year olds and 25+ men...
The 16 year old shud really ask herself why she's doing it,
and the 25+ year old shud feel ashamed of himself,
cuz he shud know better than to take advantage of a young girl,
who PROBABLY sounds like she knows what she wants,
but really is only trying to conform to peer pressure.
She might not know better,
But the guy SHUD!

Excuses such as what I mentioned above is simply disgusting.
I'd rather you just admit that you want pussy,
and u're jumping on the offer cuz the 16 year old they meet is fun, easy and dumb enough to spread their legs for u for nothing.
An easy fuck. Why pass, right?

I can imagine girls that age being very easily impressed by an older man.
Whether its the guy's physical built or mental knowledge.
And he probably doesnt even need to be VERY smart,
just an ability to bullshit their way tru things would be enough.

And the young girl wouldn't question...
Becuz to them,
older man knows more.
They're smart, they're cool,
and above all,
they're not their silly male classmates who thinks shooting peanuts out of their nose is funny.

Hence they find themselves easily attracted to these older guys.
I'm justifying the typical average 16 year old girls' acts of being easy.
That doesnt mean I dont feel disappointed and frustrated tho.
I just wish these girls wouldn't rush the process of growing up.
Why act like a 21 year old when you can enjoy being 16?

And dont get me wrong.
Im not preaching that "Save yourself until marriage!" crap.
In fact,
Odd enough,
I think that if a 16 year old sleeps with a classmate,
or a guy who's... say, 18, I wouldn't fuss this much.
Cuz I think both the 16 and 18 year olds are at the same state of mind.
They think the same things.
They're curious, they wanna know,
Their friends are doing it,
They thinks its how u express love... etc.

Basically, they're both probably twits who both think they're so cool,
and that they're soOoo in charge of the world.
And you can't stop twits from thinking like twits.

And thats precisely what Im arguing when I say,


You think it feels good that they look up to you and think u're God?
You think its great that their mouth hangs open when you know more than them,
and you impress the shit outta them?
They're 16.
You're friggin a decade older.

(but I guess if they're really just a nobody,
I can see how they can feel intimidate by women closer to their age,
and opt for the fresher and easier minds to get what they need.
Can't convince that hot professional to sleep with you?
Screw an easy 16 year old!)


By the way,
In regards to the title of this post,
Im really not meaning to attack 16 year olds.
I know there are decent ones out there.
And to the not so decent ones,
Im not gonna waste my time trying to educate you.
After all, you're still a twit.

Therefore this post goes out to all 25+ men,
who thinks they're SUCH A MAN for screwing young 16 year olds.
Maybe one day your 16 year old daughter would yell at you that "they know what they want" and they "love this 26 year old man" and wants to sleep with them,
and you'd realise there's nothing you can do about it,
cuz you were once this 25+ year old man,
and you know exactly what is going to happen.
Well... till then,
Good Luck.

September 22, 2007

.another realisation?.

I had a nice chat with Jimmy last nite.
Made me realise lots of things.
For the first time,
I was completeeeeely honest with him.

I told him we were alike.
I told him WHY we were alike.
I even gave him examples of how we are alike.

And we also took out the past and broke it down,
and analysed how we dealt with past rships...
and I was completely honest about how I was,
what I was thinking,
and about why I did the things I did.

Then I realised one thing that both applied to him and I.
We've both been tru too many past relationships,
which in their own way, had hurt bits of us...
And then we both had a some-what big blow in (at least) one of the rships,
and somehow never recovered.

From that point on...
Our guards were up.
Whether we admit it or not,
we never really allow ourselves to commit to a relationship.

Yes, some feelings would naturally be invested.
Yes, we'd care about the other person.
Yes, we'd be sweet and do things to make us feel like we're great partners,
and that we deserved to be with who we're with...

But in the end,
We'd always be able to walk away and think,
"yeaa... as expected. (sigh) meh! time to move on."

AND THIS WAS WHEN I REALISED why my relationships dont work.

Well, I have always known that...
I tend to run away when things get rough.
When the relationship loses its care-free-ness,
turns a bit more serious,
and when more mumble-jumble arises...
Thats precisely when I flee.
And my excuse was always that there were problems,
and we werent right for each other,
and its just too hard...

But in true fact,
It wasn't becuz I'm addicted to the honeymoon days in Rships,
It wasn't becuz I'm easily bored,
It wasn't becuz he wasn't the right guy...
But I honestly think,
I run so quickly becuz I never really cared enough to stay.
See, I never allowed myself to get too involved,
(self-defence mechanism from past hurts & set backs)
hence never feeling that "want" to stick around and fight for my rships.

You know how they say,
"When the going gets tough, the tough gets going?" -
For me its more like,
"When the going gets tough, Sherlene gets going."

Moral of the story...
"Love like You'd Never Get Hurt"?

Easier said than done.

Remember I said how I was completely honest with Jimmy?
I even told him how (at the beginning of our rship) I was gonna give "me and him" a shot at being something more than my usuals...
But after our "(he's) not ready to settle" discussion,
I told myself...
"Sherlene, its time to get back in the game."
(And I did... ^^)

He didnt say anything back.
He just hugged me tighter.
God knows what that meant.

September 18, 2007

.another dear diary entry.

Mid-Sem Holidays are coming up.
Just 5 more days to go.
The thing is, I dont really get a break.
Lets just say,
I've been break-ing for the past weeks...
And this is when I really need to prepare my bullets for war.

I THINK I've got my work under control,
and my plan of attack SHOULD make things flow smoothly...
Final Semester can be so scary.
Well lets hope this is my final semester.

I'm applying for my Legal Practice Course tomorrow.
Its for next year's intake.
Jan-June 2008.
I read the course overview and realised...
Although the PLT is kinda like studying at Uni,
Its tailored more to resemble the real world.

I'll be having 9-5 working hours...
That also means,
Goodbye Life!

This is why growing up is such a pain.
Every different stages you proceed to,
faces you with a whole different level of scare.
I can only hope that someday,
I'd look back to this stage as 'no biggie',
Just like how I feel when I think back to graduating from All Saints & SPM...
and moving to Australia.

Oh hey,
I just discovered a singer whom Im really growing to like.
Diana Krall.
She's pretty old-school.
She sings Jazz-like songs.
Her songs are the type you'd love to snuggle up in bed with.
Snuggle up in bed with someone, that is.
Also the type you'd slow dance to.
She's cool. I like her.

So Jimmy is back.
Everything seems great between us.
And we also managed to have a chat about things...
We decided that at this point,
Our "Relationship" is one that has EVERYTHING;
aside from Commitment & Security.
(We decided = I agreed reluctantly)
Well, he claims there is some security,
But frankly, I dont think so.

Without Commitment,
There can't be security...
And with him 'assuring' me that there isn't any commitment,
How can I possibly feel secure, yea?

I know I've probably said this many times before,
But seriously,
I've decided to actively search for someone better.
Someone who'd be able to give me what I want.
Like Zahrah said,
If the relationship doesnt give you what you need,
Maybe he's not the one.

Recalling the telephone convo I had with Shafeeq a couple of days earlier,
It made me remember how great it felt to be the apple of someone's eye.
To be cherished and to feel that he's more than content to be with you.
As if having you felt like all his Christmases had came at once.
I long to feel that way. I do.

So yea,

Right now,
I'd say my official status right now is -
Taken; But negotiable.

Oh.. and you know what?
Jimmy and I have an open communication happenin for us.
And before he left for work today,
I asked him,
"So... on a scale from 1-10,
how much would u rate your flirting with other people out there?"

"8" - he said.
Say, I've really got to love and hate him for his honestly.

ps: Ivan,
I think i will meet up with Andres afterall.

ps 2: I think I know why Jimmy came into my life.
See, I've been calling him my Karma,
and that he's so similar to me when it comes to relationships.

You know what that means?
I'm being showed exactly how I've made my past boyfriends felt.
All those insecurities and my lack of commitment.
Hence, I shouldn't make anyone else feel the way I do now.

Now that I've learnt my lesson,
Does that mean its time for Jimmy to go?
So now can I finally start building a long term relationship with someone?
(and most definitely treat them much better than how I would have in the past)

September 10, 2007

.britney did it again.

I just realised something.
I was searching around YouTube for Britney Spear's latest MTV Awards performance,
and suddenly found myself stuck in the middle of endless clips of her interviews.
From 1999 to 2007.
I remember her from then,
and I can see who she's become today.
The difference is... well... significant.
And sadly, it isnt really in a good way.

Despite all the drama and news about her,
I find myself feeling for her.
She was crying in many recent interviews.
It just made me feel sad.

She was truly once the pop icon.
The pop princess.
I use to sing and dance to her music.
But now...
Not meaning to be mean,
But it just feels like she's lost it.
Lost all that she had worked so hard to build and achieve.
It saddens me...
It seriously does. :(

I also came across one particular clip,
obviously done up by one of her die-hard fans...
It really touched me.
I think Cold Play's Fix You played a part too.

*sniff sniff*
Oh my God...
I Love Britney Spears.

.no offence shud be taken.

I told myself that when this day comes,
I must blog about it.

This Day = The day I log onto Friendster,
and Stella Lai isn't on the "recently updated" list.

Whoa... Amazing.
I guess today will be different.

September 8, 2007

.personal stuffs; to go tru or to not go tru?.

Jimmy left for Malaysia an hour ago.
Sent him off at the airport as planned.
We were late,
but still decided to spend 5 minutes (or more) in each other's arms anyway.
He almost wasn't allowed to board... keKkee...
I hope he'll have a great time..
I sincerely do.

We called Groovy on the way to the airport.
He says to call him as soon as Jimmy checks in.
He's being so helpful.
I cant thank him enough.

But anyway...
Something sorta BIG happened tonite.
Let me ask you this:

Don't you hate it when someone goes tru your personal stuff?

But turning the tables,
Have you been tru someone elses' stuff,
FIND SOMETHING which forces you to dig deeper,
and eventually hurt yourself from finding out?

AND not to mention,
Hate yourself for starting in the first place?

Everyone would hate the person who goes tru other's stuffs, rite?
After all,
They have no right to cross those lines.
Its private.
I'd hate it if someone secretly decides to stoop around my personals.

But think about it from the other person's side.
You're in the position where information is laid out in front of u.
You're curious...
You're curious to see if curiosity would actually kill the cat.
And then your curiousity forms a mind of its own.
It starts acting by itself.

Before you know it,
You've uncovered something "fishy"...
Your curiousity builds up more.
You start HATING yourself for not being able to just "let it go"...
You proceed to plunge, head first into the situation.

You see something you dont wanna see.
Something you kinda expected, but didn't expect to find.
(if you know what i mean)
Something that changes everything.
Something that puts you on unstable grounds.
Something that would make you question everything.
Something that you would so wanna confront him about,
but you're afraid to...

... and confronting him would make you the bad guy.
And you dont wanna be that guy!!

Thats when you start hating yourself.
And regret slips in.

Question is,
Is the regret for crossing the line?
Was it for trusting him in the first place?


September 6, 2007

.jimmy & his travels.

Jimmy and I watched my French movie on Monday night.
I liked it, and he did too.
It probably helped that it was in French,
so thats why he felt close to it.
I personally loved the story and the culcure and etc.
I think he love that I loved all that.
Its... quite a sadistic love story.
haHaa but I liked it!
Jimmy left for Newcastle yesterday. (Tuesday)
Again, I sent him off at the airport.
I've got to say,
I love and hate how much he travels.
1) I get time for myself.
2) I get to feel single.
3) I get the bed for myself.
4) I dont have to worry about meals for two and etc.
5) I wake up and sleep anytime I like.
6) I dont have to run according to plans he may have.
1) He's away.
2) I dont get warm hugs and kisses.
3) I cant see him when I want to.
4) I dont have someone to cluddle up with in front of the tv.
5) It gets cold at night.
6) I dont get to talk to him for hours and tell him stories.
7) He's away!
He's coming back at 6pm on Friday.
Then flying off to Malaysia for 10 days at 11.55pm,
Its cool how much he travels and have fun.
If only I had the means to go on this trip with him.
Im really worried about him being in KL alone.
I managed to get Groovy to probably meet him when he's there.
G is bloody sweet. :)
But he is also so busy,
It wouldn't feel nice to bug him.
I guess I'll just give Jimmy his number,
and we'll see what happens.
ooH... Jimmy and I also decorated a Pavlova together.
I had fun! :)
and it tasted awesoMe!

September 4, 2007

.Ronaldo has been a naughty boy - ^^.

Ronaldo's story is out.
A wild night with the boys, celebrating their first premier league win...
I read about it, and thought -

I cant help feeling jealous.

haHhaa... Okay, sorry.. *ahem*

You can read about it too -

I also read that the 'escort' who sold her story got sacked.
I wouldn't have been able to shut up if I was her.
haHaa and getting fired could be worth it.

I found a couple of new random pics of Ronaldo...
(not from that night, altho Im determined to find some)
Thought I'd share. :)

C.Ronaldo in Vogue

September 2, 2007

.glory glory!.

Man Utd won last nite.
Hopefully this would continue,
and we'd soon be back on track.
Glory Glory!!
Cyrus came back from HK yesterday.
That jersey-pillow was a gift from him.
For sure,
RONALDO 7 is the name behind the jersey.
My babe has finally served his suspensions.
He'll be back in the next match.
I hope I see changes.
The team needs a stronger attacking force.
I have faith in Saha.
And apparently,
Rooney's injury isn't gonna keep him out as long as first thought.
YAY again!
Jimmy and I will be separated for another 2 weeks soon.
He's flying off to Newcastle on Tuesday,
and the back on Friday,
Then on the same night,
He's flying to Malaysia for 10 days.
*boo hoo*
Im gonna miss him.

Ps- That'd mean I'll be available for dates.
So just call.