July 21, 2009

.happily never after?.


watch this movie when you're in your mid to late twenties. when you're thinking about marriage and commitment. when you think you're ready for marriage and all you see are rosy beds leading you into your awesome future with your one and only. ok, maybe dont watch this movie.

see, i dont know if this is reality... but it sure as hell makes your head (mine) spin. i know i knowww... real life is not a hollywood movie. and relationships? c'mon... mum and dad did it, why can't we, right? *sigh* honestly? i dont know...

people are just so different nowadays. we care more about having excitement in life. we're more competitive and greedy. more easily bored. we're harder to satisfy. easier influenced by our peers and surrounding. we're smarter with excuses and justifications of our 'wrong' actions. we just want all we think we deserve.

and ok ok, maybe not YOU. but, what about that person you chose to spend the rest of your life with? you may be sure that you won't. that you're satisfied. but how about them? how can you be sure he/she feels the same? that they're equally committed? that their head is as straight as yours?

that's right. you don't know.

good luck.

3 comments:

Hapi said...

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۞ D! ۞ said...

saw this movie like 2-3 years ago. totally relate. cmon rachel bilson is hawt and his gf is a bitch. :)

moments pain for a lifetime's pleasure?

But can you live with the what ifs?>

.lennie.sam.lee. said...

im never one who can live with what ifs... my curiousity always kill me. i wonder when my 9 lives will run out.

.... aaand the girlfriend was sooo not a bitch!! lol wait, u were being sarcastic rite? lol