here's a question. [one i've probably already asked before in the past]
OH hell, tell me again;-
if someone says something about you or something related to you that you do not agree about, does trying to explain and/or stick up for yourself make you "defensive"?
... and what if you do not voice your unhappiness about the comment, then feel terribly shitty for having to cop it? teach me please, how do you deal with the bottled up verbal vomit?
GAH! im going to bed even more disappointed than before. talk about piling more shit on top of existing shit.